Wednesday, August 29, 2012

MAGIC MOMENTS...

Every day has its magic moments. It is only since I started this blog, I am beginning to notice them even more. Thought I'd share some with you!

         MY BED FIRST THING IN THE MORNING! - Lulu, newspapers, computer.


Each day I bring the dogs for their walk to Government House. It is only 3 mins. walk from our house. I love it and NEVER tire of its beautiful gardens. I took this photo yesterday. I have been admiring this flower for the past few weeks. I think it is a thistle? Isn't it amazing?



ECCENTRIC FLOWER POTS!
On our walk to Government House, I pass this eccentric flower pot arrangement in a neighbour's garden. They are real flowers, but I cannot fathom how they stay put...can you?



DUCK POND GOVERNMENT HOUSE
This is the duck pond in Gov. House.  The ducks are hiding because they hear Chichi coming, and don't like the way she chases them...!!
DIVINE TIMING!!
Around the time I started my blog and was inviting people to join it, this is what my horoscope said. I got a good laugh from it!! Divine timing?? ha ha
                                          GIFT BASKET I WON RECENTLY
This is the wonderful gift basket I won recently at the Bay department store. I haven't opened it yet! I may donate it to charity.The thrill was in the winning!

EXOTIC PLANTS - GOVERNMENT HOUSE, VICTORIA
I took this photo yesterday because looking at this beautiful plant made me feel like I was in Hawaii! 

                              VIEW FROM MY FRONT DOOR
I just love the sight of Craigdarroch Castle, especially at night when it is all lit up, and looks so enchanting. It makes me feel like I live in Disneyland!! Despite looking at it several times a day, It never fails to thrill me!


                        MORE BEAUTIFUL FOLIAGE FROM GOVERNMENT HOUSE
     Victoria is famous for its many beautiful flower baskets. This is actually a flower basket!


Beauty is all around us...

On that happy note, I'll say choo choo! for another day!

Polly Hugs,

Patricia xxx

Tuesday, August 28, 2012

MITT AND ANN ROMNEY

I've just finished watching Ann Romney address the Nation on t.v. and boy! I sure was impressed. I know as much about politics as I do about computers - which translates to 'nothing'. With the U.S. Presidential elections just around the corner, we are seeing an awful lot of Mitt and Ann Romney. As a couple I really admire them. So much so, I did the astrological thing on them, as I do with all fascinating people. I was chuffed to discover Mitt and I share the same birthday (he is older of course!!) and his wife Ann has a birthday 3 days before Kevin, so we are the same astrological combo. That naturally endeared me to them!

Ann spoke so lovingly about their first lean years together, and how their first table was an iron board! And how lonely she felt as a young mother away from family, and friends, and not knowing what lay ahead. It made me remember our first lean years together as a couple, and not having a car for the first 3 years, and then how lonely and isolated I felt stranded in Fort McMurray in Northern Alberta, 300 miles from anywhere and brutal weather conditions. The things we do for love, eh! I believed every word from her mouth, simply because I think she is an honest woman (most Ariens are!).

As a couple, they remind me very much of Joel and Victoria Osteen. Joel Osteen is an author and televangelist. His ministry reaches over 7 million viewers weekly in over 100 nations around the world. I saw the Osteens being interviewed by Oprah, and became intrigued, so yes! I did the astrology thing on them too, to discover that Hey! Joel was Mitt Romney's sign and mine, and his wife Victoria was Ann Romney's and Kevin's sign. Google them and you have to admit that in personality and appearance they bear an incredible similarity to the Romneys!

What is interesting about the Romneys, the Osteens, and Kevin and I, is that we all met when we were very young. It was an 'instant' attraction. I met Kevin when I was 12, told my grandmother when I was 14 that I had met the man I wanted to marry - no kidding! She told me I was far too young to be talking like that! I had to wait a long time for our first date at age 25. God willing we will be 30 years married in July. Apart from meeting when we were very young, we all share a strong faith in God, which as a couple binds Kevin and I even closer. So yes, if you are wondering who to vote for in the U.S. I say with my hand on my heart - Choose Mitt Romney. I believe his heart is in the right place!

I think Obama will get in again, unfortunately. I would have far preferred Hillary Clinton. I think, astrologically speaking, she would have been FANTASTIC for the U.S.A. She is a water sign like Mitt Romney, and the USA is a water sign (4th July Cancer). Did you know that countries all have astrological signs? Ireland is a Taurus country (earth sign). Practically all our politicians have been earth signs! The current leader Enda Kelly is a Taurus, his 2 predecessors were also earth signs! Gettting back to the U.S.A. I think if people could overlook their religious views, Mitt Romney could do an awful lot for the country!

However, Astrologers believe Barack Obama will get in again...we'll know in November!! fingers and toes crossed...it is going to be an exciting election, even if I know nothin' about politics!

Monday, August 27, 2012

HOW TO STAY YOUNG...at any age!!



Since I began de-cluttering my basement a few weeks ago, I've  been unearthing all kinds of treasures. I found this charming little ditty in a box of old papers - 'How to stay young...at any age!
I thought you would enjoy it.


1.  Keep only cheerful friends. The grouches pull you down.

2.  Keep learning and exercising your brain.

3.  Enjoy the simple things - like boys, dogs, etc. (ha ha Joke!!)

4.  Laugh often, long, and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath.

5.  The tears happen. Endure, grieve, and move on. LIVE while you are alive.

6.  Surround yourself with what you love, whether it's family, pets, hobbies, music, whatever.

7.  Cherish your health: If it is good, preserve it. If it is unstable, improve it.

8.  Don't take guilt trips. Take a trip to the beach, or a foreign country, but NOT to Guiltsville!

9.  Tell the people you love that you love them at every opportunity.

10. Forgive now those who made you cry. You might not get a second chance.

11. Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

12. Try everything twice.


Choo Choo 'til tomorrow...

Polly Hugs,

Patricia xxx
  
Image from http://www.redhatsociety.com/events/conventions/LasVegas2012/photos.html

Saturday, August 25, 2012

Star Style: Taurus


Hello, all you Taureans out there! Today we'll be focusing on your Star Style :-) As was mentioned last week with the Aries post, it's important that you check out your full astrological chart to really see what you've got going on...you may have some planets in other signs which could make you seem less of a typical Taurus. Type in your date of birth at http://ephemeris.com/ephemeris.php and see what your full chart is like. Often people find they may relate to the signs that come before or after their own one (which is Aries and Gemini in your case). However, if you feel like you're a typical Taurus, read on and enjoy our style picks for you!

Taurus, the Bull
TAURUS (21st April - 20th May) 
Symbol: The Bull
Element: Earth
Colour: Soft shades of pink and blue
Gem: Emerald
Flower: Rose, daisy, tulip
Traits: Loyal, patient, persistent, reliable and practical, but can be stubborn, materialistic and possessive.
Your Style: You love expensive, good quality clothes and go for soft colours and beautiful textures.


A Note From Polly: It is easy to recognize Taurus ladies. They are earthy, sensual and exude wealth. Even if they don't have money, they always manage to look as if they do! They love their creature comforts, nice perfume, soft fabrics and furnishings. Their home is their castle, and if I was to describe them in two words it would be - 'Cupcakes and Cashmere' which is a popular blog written by a Taurus lady!

Pollyanna's favourite Taurus quotes:-

"Develop an inner candle flame that won't flicker,
 even when the worst goes before you".

        Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

"A girl can wait for the right man to come along, but in the meantime, 
 that still doesn't mean she can't have a wonderful time with all
 the wrong ones".

          Cher



FAMOUS TAUREANS

            {Adele}                         {Jessica Alba}              {Penelope Cruz}
         {Kirsten Dunst}                   {Cate Blanchett}            {Megan Fox}

        {Christina Hendricks}           {Renee Zellweger}               {Tina Fey}

               {Lily Allen}                    {Kelly Clarkson}     {Audrina Patridge}

TOP 10 STYLE PICKS FOR TAURUS

Taurus



1. Pink Dress: Taurus rules the neck, and the pretty scalloped neckline of this dress (which is in one of your lucky colours) draws attention to that zone. 
Scalloped Etiquette Dress - ricketyrack.com

    2. Collared Jumper: Look for items with an interesting collar, like the chic embellished one on this powder blue jumper.
    Miu Miu embellished top - net-a-porter.com


    3. Chloe Perfume: A feminine perfume with notes of rose, pink peony and honey.
    ChloĆ© fragrance - lordandtaylor.com

    4. Pretty Apron: If you're a true Taurean you love to cook and bake, so you might as well look cute in the kitchen in a sweet retro apron.
    Retro Cherries Apron - shopruche.com


    5. Structured Handbag: Your ideal bag is sturdy yet chic, and in a soft neutral with a touch of metal hardware to toughen it up.
    Loeffler Randall cross body shoulder bag - tenover6.com


    6. Blush: Get that fresh-faced, outdoorsy glow with some beautifully packaged rosy blush.
    Paul Joe blush asos.com


    7. Emerald Necklace: This emerald wonder is the ultimate statement necklace. It would only set you back a few grand, but a girl can dream, right?!
    Antique diamond necklace - jewelry.1stdibs.com


    8. Cowgirl Boots: Get your western on with a pair of beautifully embroidered cowgirl boots. 
    Low boots - sheplers.com

    9. Luxurious Scarf: Whether you opt for cashmere or silk, invest in a top quality scarf in one of your lucky colours; you'll get so much wear out of it!
    Valentino scarve - harrods.com

    10. Floral Jeans: These pretty, rose-patterned jeans would look fab paired with a cosy, over-sized jumper.
    Current/Elliott denim skinny jeans - mytheresa.com


    Images:

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Taurus2.jpg
    http://www.time.com/time/specials/packages/article/0,28804,2107952_2107953_2109560,00.html
    http://www.homebunch.com/jessica-albas-house/
    http://www.hollywoodactorprep.com/blog/2009/02/independent-spirit-awards2009winners-cheat-sheet/
    http://popwatch.ew.com/2010/05/19/transformers-megan-fox-out-will-it-be-the-same/
    http://www.kuchmasti.com/kirsten-dunst/
    http://www.people.com/people/package/gallery/0,,20168763_20009283_20013866,00.html
    http://cdnexpat.wordpress.com/2010/08/31/i-claim-christina-hendricks-as-canadian/
    http://www.filmbug.com/db/363
    http://just4hot.blogspot.ca/2012/07/tina-fey-latest-pictures-and-wallpapers.html
    http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/lily-allen-changes-her-name-to-lily-rose-cooper-201228
    http://www.kovideo.net/kelly-clarkson-s-single-mr-know-it-all-leaked-news-kelly-clarkson-4033.html
    http://tandlesachin21.onsugar.com/audrina-patridge-images-13316644

    Five Favourites: Healthy Snacks



    There
     is something very satisfying about organising your favourite things into lists. From movies to books, colours to clothing brands, the challenge of narrowing down your top five of everything is a fun way of passing time when you have a few minutes to kill. We've decided that Fridays will be Five Favourites on the blog, starting with our top picks for healthy snacks...we'll save our less angelic choices for another week!

    (1)  Hummus
     Tasty, filling and nutritious, this ground chickpea dip can be eaten with your choice of chopped veggies or pieces of pita bread.

    (2) Caprese Bites 
    This yummy take on the Caprese salad couldn't be easier to prepare; just scoop the insides out of tomato halves, fill with mini mozzarella balls (which can be bought by the tub) and garnish with a sprig of basil and a drizzle of olive oil and balsamic vinegar.

    (3) Chocolate-dipped Strawberries
    A fantastic way of satisfying a sweet tooth - bonus points if you opt for dark chocolate as opposed to milk.

    (4) Ants on a Log
    A childhood classic consisting of peanut butter spread on celery sticks and topped with raisins.

    (5) Fruit & Yogurt Parfait
    Simply layer yogurt, granola and your choice of fruit for a delectable sweet treat.




    Friday, August 24, 2012

    YEAH IT'S THE WEEKEND!

    It's treat again folks on the Pollyanna Express train of thought...choo choo!

    Each weekend, we will enjoy guest visits from Ali and Vicky's blog. (www.aliandvic.blogspot.com) I enjoy reading them more than I do my own - no kidding! I'm spending weekends catching up on writing my book 'Dancing with the Stars' on relationship astrology, as I have a lot of young ones asking me for it! There is considerable work involved, so I need to focus on that during the weekends. In the meantime, sit back, chillax, and enjoy the following blogs this weekend:-

    Saturday 25th August - 'Five Favourite Healthy Snacks'

    Sunday 26th August - 'Star Style Taurus' for all you sassy Taurus gals!

    Remember if you're not near the one you love - love the one you're near!!

    Polly Hugs,

    Patricia xxx

    Thursday, August 23, 2012

    THE GAMES POLLYANNA PLAYS


    Since boarding the Pollyanna train of thought, each day is a new adventure, and I never know what Ms. P has up her sleeve! She constantly inspires me with fun suggestions on how to live a happier, and more peaceful existence. I'm learning to appreciate the magic moments, and to find joy in the simplest of pleasures. Thank you for all the beautiful, encouraging emails I've been receiving since I started this blog in mid July. It would appear Rule # 10 is the most popular!! When it comes to your happiness - just think of the word  K.I.S.S. - Keep it Super Simple!

    Each morning, as part of my exercise regime, I walk on the Cedar Hill chip trail - my favourite place on earth! I call it the 'Holy Grail'. En-route, I pass birds hunting for food, babies in strollers, people I know, who stop for a chat, joggers a-sweating, dogs of every make and shape, cats a purring, ducks paddling in the stream, wild sweet smelling roses, and now that we are in the berry season, people with pails in hand, picking the voluptuous blackberries, ripe for the pick. It's a joyful amble, and one I truly look forward to each morning. Oh, did I forget to mention the golfers?

    Yes, I also pass golfers, earnest in their efforts to get a hole in one! This is the fun part of my walk. I have devised a new game which brings a smile, not just to my face, but to theirs as well. It is called "Have you lost your balls?" This is how it works...

    As I walk, I often see lost golf balls hiding in the bushes (average 1-2 per day). As soon as I have one in hand, I then look for a group of elderly golfers (they appreciate the value of a free ball and a flirt). Here's how it goes "Hey fellas have you lost your balls?" I shout out bold as you like. They get excited and all run to catch it. (I pretend to throw it at them). 'Not so fast boyz" I say in my best Mae West voice. "First you have to think of a number between 1 and 10". They get all happy, especially the fellow who picks the correct number. So it's a win win situation. I get to do a corporal act of mercy (returning lost golf balls, and flirting with  seniors). It's worth me at least 10 brownie points for heaven.  They get free golf balls, which they probably lost in the first place! Yes, it powers up my walk nicely, and is a fun diversion. They call me 'Ballzy' ha ha.

    The other game that Polly created was 'Hey do you collect cans?' I collect my old cans and as soon as I have a black bag full, I put it in the trunk of my car to give to a street person. The look of absolute delight in his/her face is priceless (see below). I spotted Gary, the man in the picture below on my way to Chinatown one day. I asked "Hey do you collect cans?" He was so thrilled, and I asked him if I could take his photo to show my readers. His smile speaks a thousand words, doesn't it?

    Yet another win win K.I.S.S. situation, would you not agree?

    Choo Choo for another day!

    Polly hugs,

    Patricia xxx



    Wednesday, August 22, 2012

    OLFACTORY SCENT-SATION

    Last night while out for a ramble with my doggies, they stopped for a sniff, and were enjoying it so much, they refused to budge an inch. En-Ooohh! This was clearly a special tree, so I let them enjoy it. And relish it they sure did, deeply inhaling its fertile roots, and getting higher than the Empire State, as the song goes. Their little noses were glued to the tree - not just ordinary polite sniffing -  more like a hallucinatory trance, as their eyes rolled up to heaven in complete and absolute ecstasy.

    How easy it is to amuse them I thought to myself. All dogs need to keep them happy are the 3 S's - Snoozing, Snacking and Sniffing! We all enjoy the snoozing and snacking bit, but the big question is - are we sniffing enough? Could aromatherapy do for us happiness seekers, what trees do for our dogs?  Is there anything to beat the aroma of freshly baked bread? or frying onions, especially when you're hungry. And sausages and bacon sizzling in the pan on a sunny Saturday morning, hmm...Heaven! And the aroma of freshly brewed coffee. Or how about the clean fresh scent of lavender soap after a hot sweaty day at the beach. Inhaling a potpourri of roses on a cold winter's day instantly brings back summer.

    The restorative comfort of fragrance is a given. Our sense of smell is our primordial link to our brains. It affects our moods, feelings and emotions. Peppermint aids mental clarity. Lavender sprayed on your pillow before going to bed has a calming affect and aids sleep. I've heard lemon-grass is good for a headache and that rose oil is an aid for depression. A particular favourite book of mine is: 'Easy Steps to Aromatherapy' by Rosalind Widdowson. There are some wonderful suggestions on how to scent up your life.

    HAPPINESS TIP FOR THE DAY:

    Start sniffing...Book an aromatherapy massage (special treat)...go into your garden (or walk by somebody else's) for instant thrills - roses, lavender, honeysuckle - go with the nose flow! Spend some time discovering exciting new perfumes at the fragrance department, or re-connect with loved ones by spraying a mist of their favourite perfume. If you want to keep them closer to your heart, keep the piece of paper and use it as a book mark! Check out Bath and Body Works - they have a wonderful aromatherapy collection. Ginger for energy, eucalyptus spearmint for stress relief, jasmine vanilla for sensuality and lavender vanilla for sleep.
    Gaze at the pictures below and imagine the beautiful perfume from each image.












    Images:
    http://feliciadawnking.com/home/lavender-field-1/
    http://www.shutterpoint.com/Photos-ViewPhoto.cfm?id=654903
    http://www.bulgarianroseotto.com/roseoilgallery.html
    http://www.jackson4senate.com/home-remedies-using-peppermint-essential-oil/
    http://www.perfumerypalace.com/aromatherapycandles.php



    Monday, August 20, 2012

    HAVE A DATE WITH YOURSELF!



    Wish I could say that sweet aphrodite soaking in the tub was me! I have a large claw foot tub c. 1916 painted pink (see below). The handyman who painted it aptly called it 'the pepto-bismol tub' for obvious reasons!

    Talking about tubs leads me to my next train of thought...
    You really have to be good to yourself (think lone sailor on sea of life analogy). There are so many people depending on you to make this world a better place. How can you help anyone if you are not in a good physical or mental space yourself? On your journey to Nirvana, stop off and have a weekly date with yourself. That's exactly what I did on Saturday, and boy I sure feel like a new girl!

    All I did was take two hours to myself, turned on the bath water, and put some Angel shower lotion in the water. It produced bubbles of absolute bliss, and in moments my bathroom was magically transformed into a luxurious spa. Before I got into the water, I de-fuzzed the legs, washed my face with facial scrub to take off the dead skin, and then applied an Elizabeth Arden face mask, which I bought ages ago, and have hardly ever used it - shame on me! Thankfully, it was still perfect.

    What followed was an hour of total delight. I dived into some wonderful magazines, which I had bought some time ago, but never allowed myself the time to enjoy them. Now I did, and what a treat. You could spend longer on your date, and do stuff like a manicure, hair mask, or even a foot spa and home pedicure. I used to do a lot more of that when I was younger, before I married and had children. From now on, I am putting a weekly date with myself on the menu - maybe in my 'Happy Calendar'. No buts or maybes! Why don't you do the same? After all...you're worth it! Yes you are.
    FUN UP YOUR LIFE! Put it on your to-do list.



           How do you like my cute little 'pepto-bismol tub? It makes bath time fun!

    Image: http://www.spaweekend-i.com/spa-weekend-breaks-bath

    Sunday, August 19, 2012

    SUNDAY TREAT

    As I write, it's Sunday morning. I'm enjoying my Starbucks in bed, and listening to the heavenly voice of Elvis Presley. No doubt, he really was 'The King'. His gospel music was  magnificent. Apparently after a concert, he would go back to his hotel suite and sing gospel with his band into the early hours of the morning.

    Since I'm in such a lazy decadent mood, I thought I would share Ali and Vicky's suggestions of 'Ten things to do in August'. I loved the following images, and found gazing at them such a treat. The photo of the beach looked very familiar, until I realized it was the beach from my home town in Ireland! Many is the time I ran barefoot and carefree along that golden mile.

    Don't you love the image of that juicy ice cream cone? Yum yum...I can just imagine wrapping my jaws around that one! And the picnic in some scenic piece of paradise...

    So go and squeeze in as much decadent delights before cocooning for winter!


    Even though we're more than halfway through August, there's still plenty of time to squeeze in a few more summery adventures before autumn arrives. We've compiled a list of ten things to do while the days are still long and sunny and the livin' is easy.

    1. Go to the Beach


    Take Nicki Minaj up on her suggestion and get yourself down to your nearest beach. Whether it's by the sea, a lake, or river, there's sure to be some sort of sandy option nearby where you can frolic and bathe to your heart's content.

    2. Be a Tourist in Your Own Town 


    Make like a tourist for a day and check out all the attractions your town has to offer. Be sure to take lots of photos!

    3. Read a Good Book


    There's nothing so enjoyable as relaxing for an hour or two with a really good book. Bonus points if you read outside.

    4. Go for Ice Cream


    Obviously, ice cream is amazing year-round but it tastes even better in summer.

    5. Have a Barbecue 


    The smoky smell of meat sizzling on the barbecue has to be one of summer's top olfactory experiences. Gather your friends and family round on a balmy evening and fire up the grill!

    6. Go to an Amusement Park


    Whether it's Disneyland itself or your local fun fair, hit up an amusement park for some wholesome fun. Ride the rollercoasters, eat the candy floss and try your hand at winning a massive teddy bear.

    7. Feast on Fresh Fruit 


    Berries are still in season, but not for much longer, so make sure you gorge yourself on as much locally-grown produce as possible. Take it one step further by going fruit-picking yourself.

    8. Have a Picnic 


    Buy the finest delicacies your budget will allow (cheese, baguettes, grapes, wine, etc.), pack the lot in a picnic basket and take to a scenic locale of your choice.

    9. Get Out On the Water


    Whether it's on a barge, tube, sailboat or dinghy (or luxury yacht for the truly blessed), get yourself out on the water at least once while summer's still here.

    10. Go Back-to-School Shopping


    One of our favourite things about heading back to school (if not the only thing) was back-to-school shopping. The thrill of buying fresh new notebooks, pencils and markers was such an absolute joy. Even if you're finished with school and uni, still drop by your local stationery shop to purchase a few new office supplies. 


    Images:
    http://inphotos.org/2009/05/12/kilkee-beach/
    http://www.specs.ca/default.aspx?page=20
    http://egregores.blogspot.ca/2010/10/nothing-in-common-except-name-contra.html
    http://flickrhivemind.net/User/mrmanc/Interesting
    http://asuperwomansguide.wordpress.com/2011/05/25/10-tips-for-healthy-summer-barbecue-eating/
    http://www.ybig.ie/forum/french-festivals-de-portarlington_topic31038.html
    http://blogs.babble.com/toddler-times/2012/07/02/of-babes-and-berries-5-summer-berries-with-super-powers/
    http://collegecandy.com/tag/picnic/
    http://www.scenicreflections.com/download/328038/River_barge_on_the_Cote_D_Or_Wallpaper/
    http://www.torontosun.com/2012/08/15/staples-cuts-outlook-on-weak-global-demand

    Saturday, August 18, 2012

    HOWDEE PARDNERS?

    How's life been on the train of thought...? I've missed chatting with you! The past two days were really busy for me doing astrological consultations (love that part!) and getting Kevin's Corporation papers ready for our accountant (hate that part!). I got a request yesterday to do a skype/telephone consultation for a client in Texas - never did that before! It's exciting though...She's the sister of a girl I saw recently.

    My daughters Ali and Vicky offered to do a guest blog. And wasn't it wonderful? I thoroughly enjoy reading their blog because of the variety, especially the travel and fashion component - two passions of mine! So between the three of us gals, we'll ensure you have some entertainment with your early morning cuppa!

    In my last few consultations, I was doing more of the stuff which I hugely enjoy, which is Synastry, or 'Relationship Astrology'. I guess it is because at heart I am a true romantic! Contrary to my hairdresser the other day, who passionately declared " I never want to get married!"I think marriage is a wonderful institution! We had a heated discussion about same, but it was fun! I tell all my clients that it is vital to be married to your best friend. Because when your body stretches, your skin droops, the wrinkles appear, you need a partner whose heart never changes, and who just sees 'the real you'. If you can't converse honestly with your partner - forget it!! Usually, the stars reveal all this anyway. There are no secrets with the planets - they tell it like it is!

    So let those fingers take a little trip over to the 'Rules of the Road' and give a big hug to somebody today!!

    On that happy note I wish you all a super duper weekend!!

    Polly Hugs!

    Patricia xxx

    Thursday, August 16, 2012

    SURPRISE SURPRISE!

    STAR STYLE:  LEO

    Hello, Happiness Train Passengers! I'm Patricia's daughter Ali. My sister Vicky and I have just started a blog, too - you can check it out at www.aliandvic.blogspot.com. We've collaborated with our mama to produce a "Star Style" series which we post every Monday on our blog. We've only just published the Aries one, so we are offering a preview of the Leo Edition especially to Project Pollyanna readers. We hope you enjoy it- especially you Leo readers who have a birthday around this time!


    LEO (23rd July - 22nd August)
    Symbol: The Lion
    Colour: Orange, gold
    Gem: Peridot, carnelian
    Flower: Sunflower, marigold
    Traits: Generous, courageous, confident, affectionate and dignified, but can be arrogant, domineering and too proud to ask for help.
    Your Style: Subtlety is not your thing; you like to be in the spotlight and tend to go for bright colours and luxurious textures. 



    FAMOUS LEOS
                 {Madonna}               {Jennifer Lopez}            {Halle Berry}


           {Charlize Theron}           {Hilary Swank}         {Sandra Bullock}


                {Mila Kunis}                {Kate Beckinsale}          {Amy Adams}


            {Audrey Tautou}              {Kristen Wiig}        {Jennifer Lawrence}


    Well done Ali and Victoria. You did an amazing job WTG girls!

    Guess what? You can always spot a Leo by their magnificent mane of hair - just like the lion! It's a giveaway!

    Pollyanna's favourite Leo quote:-

    "One of the things I have learned the hard way was that it doesn't pay to get discouraged. Keeping busy and making optimism a way of life can restore your faith in yourself".
                                         
    -Lucille Ball


    TOP TEN STYLE PICKS FOR LEOS



    Leo



    1. Orange Maxi Dress: Leos are regal beings, so a stunning dress in your ruling colour is a must-have for you!

    AX Paris long dress - nelly.com

    2. Gold Bangles: The more of these stacked on your arm, the merrier!

    Miso set of bangle - republic.co.uk


    3. Bright Jeans: Brighten your day with a pair of saffron-hued trousers. 

    7 For All Mankind cordoroy pants - lordandtaylor.com


    4. Embellished Ballet Flats: Opulence doesn't have to be uncomfortable; these flats are both practical and glamorous at the same time.

    Ballet shoes - myhotshoes.com


    5. Leopard Print: Animal print was made for you; be on trend with a peplum-style top.

    River Island leopard print top - riverisland.com


    6. Bronzer: Leos love the sun, fact! Cheat a sun-kissed glow year-round with a good-quality bronzer.

    Elizabeth Arden bronzing powder - elizabetharden.com


    7. J'adore Perfume: A warm, luxurious scent in a sleek, golden bottle.

    Christian dior perfume - johnlewis.com


    8. Fur-trimmed Parka: When the weather turns cold, a bit of fur will add warmth and panache to your coat.

    Joseph parka coat - coggles.com


    9. Gold Clutch: A glittering clutch is the perfect accessory for any evening outing.

    Anya Hindmarch glitter clutch - stylebop.com


    10. Peridot Earrings: Wear your birthstone with pride with a pair of chandelier earrings - the bigger, the better!
    Peridot earrings - maxandchloe.com





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    http://www.gallery.becomegorgeous.com/jennifer_lopez_makeup/jennifer_lopez_silver_makeup-2734.html
    http://www.topnews.in/light/people/halle-berry
    http://www.celebrityhairstyle.org/2010/05/charlize-theron-hairstyles.html
    http://collider.com/hilary-swank-molly-mickler-smith-interview-something-borrowed/89087/
    http://blogs.babble.com/famecrawler/2010/04/28/sandra-bullock-baby-name/
    http://hellogiggles.com/while-i-was-sleeping-i-beat-mila-kunis-in-the-anti-hunger-games
    http://www.people.com/people/kate_beckinsale/0,,,00.html
    http://movies.yahoo.com/person/amy-adams/
    http://www.peoplestylewatch.com/people/stylewatch/gallery/0,,1534069_1190541,00.html
    http://www.celebuzz.com/celebrities/kristen-wiig/
    http://techinfoguru.com/jennifer-lawrence-tall-height-weight-age/

    Wednesday, August 15, 2012

    SHARE YOUR SMILE...

    So said the message on a car bumper sticker yesterday. It got me thinking...I began to practise my smile while driving. It felt both weird and wonderful, until I nearly crashed into somebody ha ha!! How can you be mad with yourself, or anybody else for that matter, when you have a smile on your face? Try it again - smile just like you would for a camera. It feels good, doesn't it? The world really does look better from behind a smile.

    It brings to mind a documentary I watched about college graduates in Japan competing for a job in a well known company. One of the skills they had to learn was how to smile correctly in order to land that dream job. Wait for it...this will surely put a smile on your face - they had to practise smiling with a chop stick stuck in their mouths! Surely there must be easier ways of learning how to smile? How about thinking of the funniest joke you ever heard, or even looking at a really funny postcard, the ones that bring tears to your eyes. I keep some of those in my 'Happy Box'.

    How about a 'Happy Calendar' where you diary only happy events like birthdays, anniversaries, concerts, theatre, hairdresser, forthcoming holidays, etc. Another quick pick-me-up is to listen to the music of New Mexico singer, Jerry Dean. If Jerry doesn't bring a smile to your face - get out that chop stick!! And if you're hangry (hungry and angry) how about rustling up an omelette - quick and satisfying! If smiling is a 'skill', so too is happiness. The more you practise the art of 'being happy' it becomes like second nature to you. Here's my tip for the day, it works for me. It may work for you too!

    Imagine yourself as a lone sailor on the sea of life. You have nobody but yourself to rely on. You become your own BFF. Some days you encounter choppy seas, other days you meet pirates, trying to rob your happiness. Then there will be days when the sun is blazing down upon you, and you give thanks to God for being alive, and for the beauty that is. The most important thing to remember is that YOU are the captain of your own ship. With steely determination, you steer it in the direction you want to go, and with God's grace, you will always arrive safely to shore.

    On that positive note, I bid you all adieu and happy sailing!

    Polly Hugs!

    Patricia xxx

    Tuesday, August 14, 2012

    THE SISTERS SHAFIA

    My mother was the eldest of three sisters. I was the second of four sisters, and now I have three daughters, each of whom can one day say "I was one of three sisters." I guess you could say sisterly love is deep in my DNA. Perhaps that may explain why the harrowing story of the Shafia sisters, and their gruesome end, has moved me so much. To those of you reading this abroad, you may not be familiar with the story. The reason I mention it is because I have just been watching a documentary 'The Fifth Estate' which gave a blow by blow account of the whole sordid story. If you google 'Shafia sisters murders' you can read more.

    On June 30th, 2009, in Kingston, Ontario, Mohammed Shafia, an immigrant from Afghanistan, his second wife Tooba, and their 20 year old son Hamed, murdered the girls, (supposedly an honour killing) along with Rona, Mohammed's first wife who was infertile. To see pictures of the smiling sisters would bring tears to the most hardened hearts. Zainab, the eldest was only 19, Sahar the middle sister was 17, and Geeti the baby sis was 13. How could a mother kill her own children? It's beyond comprehension. She wasn't insane, just evil. Ditto the father. I think the brother just went along with his parents out of fear, maybe not. Who's to know? They are all behind bars now for life. No winners, and nobody singing 'Don't worry, be happy'.

    To all of you reading this today, I hope you will remember the sisters in prayer. They lived in the utmost fear of their father, who did not like the way they dressed, or the fact Zainab had a boyfriend. They were normal teenagers, who died because of their efforts to 'fit' into the Canadian culture. Equally innocent was Rona, Mohammed's first wife, who was infertile, and treated as a servant by the second wife Tooba. In the midst of all the turmoil and abuse in their home, the concept of 'Don't worry, be happy' would have gone down like a ton of bricks I'm sure!

    So my question to you, and to myself is 'How could anybody be happy who fears for their life?' Could prayer have helped them? Maybe for once, a shotgun would have been useful...maybe if they even shot that demonic father of theirs in the knee, or something like that, so they could not have been accused of murder...questions with no answers.

    Please feel free to post any comments in the 'comments' section of this blog, and maybe we could get some dialogue going... In the meantime, please remember the Shafia sisters and their aunt Rona in your prayers. May they rest in peace.


                                   INNOCENT VICTIMS

    DON'T WORRY BE HAPPY, DO NOTHING

    So says Canadian social psychologist Jamie Gruman. He is proposing a new way of achieving nirvana:  Do nothing. Instead, live in the moment and embrace the "serene and contented acceptance of life as it is, with no ambitions of acquisition, accomplishment or progress towards goals." (does he have kids?) Gruman is co-founder of the newly created Canadian Positive Pyschology Association, a network of scholars and academics studying human well-being and happiness. Positive psychology emphasizes strengths more than illness. The alternative way of thinking emphasizes "disorders", "deficits" and "neuroses". Positive psychology focuses on happiness, well-being, resilience, empathy, gratitude and forgiveness (check out my rules of the road).

    Still...easier said than done. The "no ambitions of acquisition, accomplishment or progress towards goals" would be terrific if you lived in the jungles of Borneo, minus the gadgets, gizmos and kids, right? Imagine when you start nagging your kids to do their homework, and they respond with "Don't worry, be happy!". Aaagh...!! Or when the dog has peed on your best rug, and the Handyman forgets to turn up, 'Don't worry, be happy! Like everything, it takes a while to get the hang of it.

    The 'Don't Worry Be Happy' philosophy conflicts with the lessons taught to us at school and work, which is that you have to 'Focus to win'. Like it or not, we live in a goal-orientated society. In order to survive in our dog-eat-cat society, which win is correct? His 'win' or the other 'win'. I'm confused. This is a concept which would probably be easier to embrace when the kids are done for, and one could completely bask and luxuriate in the pleasure of doing nothin'.

    Homework for the day:   'Don't worry, be happy' - Try it, I dare you!!

    Choo Choo and keep on truckin'

    Polly Hugs,

    Patricia xxx

    Monday, August 13, 2012

    THE OLDER THE CHICKEN THE SWEETER THE PICKIN'

    That's what we ladies 'of certain age' like to think, right? But what does growing old 'gracefully' really mean? It's a curious question. We all approach it differently. Some of us like to dress and feel like we did in our 20's. Others amongst us 'give up' after turning 50, and the rest of us keep on truckin'.

    Years ago when I lived in Ireland, I recall meeting a beautiful Indian woman. She was the wife of a doctor who worked with Kevin. She was only 30, but told me women her age in India were regarded as being 'over the hill' - in other words 'past it'. I never forgot the encounter. Thankfully, and hopefully, times have changed...or have they?

    Last week I had a letter from my 'adopted' Indian son, Sidhanta. Wait for it!!...he told me in his letter - direct quote - "my grandmother is very old. She is around 50 years old. She depends upon her livelihood through her old age pension". Does that make me a geriatric? I'm a few years older than his grandmother. Kevin and the kids had a good laugh out of that one...not me! There is a seniors centre here in Victoria for 'over 50's' again the kids joke "hey mama you can join up" or what about the over 50's 'brown bag lunch' at our church. NO THANK YOU!! to both.

    I'd prefer to be on Jane Fonda's team, or maybe even Joan Rivers on the 'Fashion Police'. Divas like that inspire me. Jane is 75 and looking amazing! madly in love, the figure of a Goddess, the hope of a 20 year old, and the enthusiasm of a 16 year old as she embraces, what she calls her "third chapter". Joan Rivers is also high on my list of 'Fab Females'. She is two years shy of 80 and currently looking for a man!

    Closer to home, I met an extraordinary lady yesterday. She was about 75, and decidedly the most glamorous lady I have seen in a long while. She was dressed in a black skirt, canary yellow top with matching yellow nail polish! It was the yellow nail polish that did it for me, and her cute little black and white polka dot hair bow that declared 'I'm still in the game of life'. God willing, that's the way I want to be at 75!

    Age is mind over matter - as long as you don't mind, it doesn't matter!
    Look around you, and within you. What can you do to make your 'golden years' the most spectacular years of your life? Learn from all your hard-earned wisdom, and never lose your zest for life.

    Polly Hugs,

    Patricia xxx

    Saturday, August 11, 2012

    IF YOU'RE NOT IN YOU CAN'T WIN!

    That's what I said to my daughters with a laugh, as we entered our names for a free draw a few months ago. They were flying past the entrance door to a show we were attending. I called them back "C'mon girls If you're not in you can't win!" Guess what? Mama me won a hair straightener worth $200! "Bet you'll listen to mama now!" I said as we collected our prize.

    Three weeks ago I entered my name into another free draw, and I joked with the lady "If you're not in, you can't win, right?" I don't usually enter free draws, and I had forgotten about that one, but surprise! surprise! I got a phone call yesterday to say I had won a gift basket! I love when stuff like that happens. It reaffirms my belief that 'optimism is truly a magnet that draws good unto itself'.

    I haven't always been an optimist. I would say prior to the age of 12, I was definitely a pessimist. It all changed for me when I discovered astrology. I began to see that there was a pattern in the universe, and that God and miracles and magic truly did exist! That knowledge made me very happy. Almost overnight I went from being a pathologically shy pessimist, to the other end of the spectrum - a blind optimist. Trust me, the latter is a lot more fun, and produces much better results! Sure we know from Scott Peck that 'Life is difficult" but with a positive attitude, you can handle whatever manure hits the fan!!

    You too can train your thoughts, just like I did. I made a conscious decision years ago to live in the land of optimism, simply because it is a happier place to be. I like bright cheerful colours, happy music, happy thoughts. I don't permit negative thoughts to linger long, and I just make a point of keeping away from toxic energy. It works. 'Eat Pray Love' is not just the name of Elizabeth Gilbert's best selling book - it is a way of life, and one that produces much happiness (providing you don't go overboard with the food component!!)

    Positive thoughts produce positive results - ALWAYS!

    Cheery byes!

    Patricia xxx

    Friday, August 10, 2012

    TO BE OR NOT TO BE...

    ...HAPPY? That is the question, and only YOU have the answer.

    It's a given - sweet and sour will always feature on life's menu. By filling our tanks with happy moments, it will help us deal with the less savoury ones. Our entry into this world wasn't exactly a pleasant experience, was it? Being kicked out of our mother's cosy womb, was surely a rude awakening. No wonder we cried our guts out! Ever since, we've probably been on our guard, realizing that in a given moment, life can alter, for the better, or for the worse.

    It's true for Carl Jung, the word 'Happiness' would lose its true meaning, if it were not balanced by sadness. So how do you keep your engine in happiness drive? - without appearing like a total phoney? The answer for me personally, can be summed up in one word - God. Ever since I was a small child, my faith, and belief in angels, has sustained me, especially in moments of turmoil. I sensed there was a protective presence, and it was to that 'protective presence' I would pray. They got me out of plenty a hairy situation time and time again. That's why I stuck around!

    I was fortunate to grow up in a loving home environment. I never doubted for a moment that I was loved. School was another matter...I hated it from the get go! I was convinced the nuns were men in drag,with their hairy legs and deep voices, and I didn't like the way they shouted at us kids, and some of them were downright mean. They put me off school in those early bleak years. First of all, I get kicked out of my mother's cosy womb, then as soon as I get settled into my new home, I get kicked out again to face the Nuns! By the age of 10, I knew exactly what Scott Peck was talking about in his book 'The Road Less Travelled'.

     "Life is difficult. This is a great truth, one of the greatest truths. It is a great truth, because once we truly see this truth, we transcend it. Once we truly know that life is difficult - once we truly understand and accept it - then life is no longer difficult. Because once it is accepted, the fact that life is difficult no longer matters".

    The above infamous tongue-twister is worth pondering on, isn't it?

    That's your homework for the weekend!

    So get going! - Make music - Sing - Dance - Eat - Love - Pray - Create beauty - Walk your dogs - Hug somebody. Do whatever it takes to build up your misery immune system!

    Love ya!

    Polly Hugs,

    Patricia xxx

    Thursday, August 9, 2012

    COULD IT BE I'M FALLING LOVE...

    ...with my wardrobe all over again? Yes, absolutely!

    Since my decision to embark on a shopping sabbatical (for a year), I've been discovering hidden treasures in my wardrobe - every day is a new surprise! I've housed all my summer gear in my bedroom wardrobe, and out of season stuff in the basement. I have even gone so far as to put items of the same colour all together. What fun! I've done the same with my jewellery. No shops - more time to play! Housework? Yes, of course. Work? yes of course! Never realized how much time shopping stole from me!

    Here are some photos. A time management book I read suggested putting 7 outfits together for the week ahead, and then writing them on your wardrobe door, so you don't have to ask yourself 'What should I wear today?' An idea I find very useful.
    Dressing up is fun, at least it makes me happy, and others too. Every time I make an effort, strangers come up and compliment me. It brings a smile to their faces.

    Even the patients in the office have commented on how much it cheers them up. One lady gave me the ultimate compliment recently "You're my role model". Whot? me? I was taken aback when she said it. (Kevin has noticed this lady is now taking an increased interest in her appearance, never bothering before). To be honest, it kind of puts me under pressure now...knowing that somebody is watching what I'm wearing! It just goes to show you, an effort a day, keeps gloom away!

    LADY LULU LOOKING AT HER MOM PLAY!

     ALL THE SUMMER SCARVES ARRANGED - JUST LIKE BANANA REPUBLIC


    I SHOULD HAVE PUT THE WHITE STUFF IN THE CENTRE! JUST LIKE THE IRISH FLAG - GREEN WHITE AND GOLD!!


    GUESS WHO LOVES TURQUOISE? CLAUDIA GOT ME SOME IN VIETNAM, AND MEXICO - THE REST ARE FROM FLEA MARKETS (THE YELLOW AND BLUE ONE JUST COST ME $5!!



    EVERY LADY NEEDS A HAT TO PROTECT HAIR COLOUR FROM THE SUN!
    THE GREEN ONE REVERSES TO HOT PINK IN THE CENTRE - LOTSA FUN!!

    MORE FLEA MARKET FINDS...AND THERE IS EVEN MORE THAN THAT! BEING STRINGED AT THE BEAD STORE...BEEN THERE FOR MONTHS!!


    A PLACE FOR EVERYTHING, AND EVERYTHING IN ITS PLACE!


    BOUGHT THIS JEWELLERY WARDROBE IN FORT McMURRAY WHEN WE ARRIVED IN CANADA 20 YEARS AGO - IT WAS TO CHEER ME UP!!
    IT IS VERY USEFUL.


    SO NOW, YOU CAN SEE WHY I HAVE GONE ON A SHOPPING SABBATICAL!

    KEEP DOING WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY!!

    CHEERY BYE BYE...

    PATRICIA XXX